Get back into dating scene
You meet, you hit it off, you get really excited because you’ve finally found a great guy, and after that…silence.
Before heading home, J and I planned a date for that Thursday.We exchanged numbers, kissed, said our goodbyes, and I left feeling quite pleased with myself, knowing that I had played my cards right. I wasn’t expecting a call on Monday or Tuesday because of the ‘rules’ and all that, but by Wednesday night I started to feel a little panicked. By 7 pm I had two choices: resign myself to the fact that he isn’t into me, or do something I had never, ever done before- call him. As the phone rang I practiced the message I would leave on his voicemail in my head but was interrupted when, to my astonishment, a very perplexed-sounding J answered the phone.Deducing that I had nothing to lose, I decided to go with the latter because he was cute and funny and he gave me butterflies in my stomach which no one had done since my ex and I had been incapable of feeling anything for anyone after my ex and now I finally had feelings again and feelings don’t come around everyday so I wasn’t gonna let this go so easily. From there, a horrifically awkward conversation ensued.When a guy doesn’t call – say it with me- he’s just not that into you… Well I firmly believed this for a while but now I’m gonna have to say that’s not always the case.Through the years I, like most of you, I’m sure, have found myself in those infamous and utterly maddening situations.